So much harshness in this thread. As an informed party, I can vouch that Tony isn't trying to call out anyone's stupidity.
What is getting lost is that a TOTAL solar eclipse is an immersive experience where the world looks different. The scene around you is illuminated by wavelengths of light that are invisible under any other circumstance. Your TV doesn't emanate those wavelengths, you have to be there.
I'm not sure how a case of getting an eye operation during the eclipse time frame is relevant here, since anyone with that kind of conflict would only be thinking about coming out of it with their eye working. But since you're talking about it, it's very evident that Marc C's eclipse experience was during a partial, from his comments plus the factors Tony mentioned. Neither of us are arbiters of other people's vision, until we get some extra microchips implanted in us, but since this August is going to make 20 totals between us, we know how to make this distinction. Debunking people who mistakenly think they've seen a total is a parlor game among the eclipse-chasing community - no offense intended, we frequently have this talk with friends.
Partials need to be viewed through a solar filter, whether combined with a telescope, binoculars or protective glasses. Same thing with a low magnitude annular like the one during May 2012. Not a comparable experience.
Before I made a habit of eclipse-chasing, I missed one when I didn't get it together to fly from NYC to Cabo on 4 days notice. I do understand many people think as hard about driving to the next town as I would about the NYC-Cabo trip. I also know very well how people skip new experiences when effort is involved. My parents took me and my brother to the Grand Canyon, and all we did was peek over the edge. The world is full of rim-peekers.
We don't put you in the rim-peeker bucket Admin, so that's why Tony is urging you to seize the day on this. But don't worry, I'm not going to try and talk you into it, it's your decision.